
Maybe the title sounds kind of wrong or something is not right here...but still this is a problem.

I will have to ask or even "beg" for help...this is a hard one!!!
All i ask, is that you understand.
And please help me out with tips or personal experience or something like that!!!
Well the main problem is the creativeness and it's endless limits and stretched out possibilities.
Yeah i'm talking about the music making world!
It's really awesome , amazing , big , long-lasting pleasure etc BUT!
It's like an ocean...it's full of fish and water but you can drown very easily.

Today i was making some music + tried to finish some of the sketches...but unfortunately like always , I end up doing almost nothing.

The problem is that i like to criticise myself!
I know it's not bad...there has to be something like this , because without it...you'll be making crap all the way.
But my criticism is one of the main problems.
For an example : I sit down to make music...it takes some hours...from 1-8 hours...
I love this process...the making is really creative and it's fun...
Well , after that period of time i have made something that sounds good...something that i like.
Then the next day when i come to make something more i usually listen to the old stuff and when i listen to it...it's like "WHO MADE THIS PIECE OF S**T?"
It's not always like that...sometimes i like the stuff...but mostly i hate it...
That's my first problem.
And the other one is that...when i make something spontaneously...my friends love it...
They really DO , but i DON'T!
Because when making something spontaneously i can't control the process and when i listen to it...the first thing comes to my mind...is : DID A CHILD MAKE IT?
But my friends love it...and it's really hard to make my final decision that the song is complete...when i think that it sucks...but others love it...it's like letting something really bad go...and i don't want that to happen...so it's a dilemma.
And another problem is that i can't finish songs...i always want them to be better.
I tweak them like forever...this doesn't end...and that's really bad...

Also this endless tweaking has positive sides , and they are :
I can make a lot of sounds...A LOT with one sample...or if i have a song i can make unlimited versions of it. But i end up stuck in it...that i can't choose or decide...
But if we look at stuff the other way...
I have listened to some songs without the vocals...just instrumental stuff...and a lot of songs...mostly all...sound really lame and unprofessional...
Maybe the vocals give the song...the real vibe and the feeling...
I don't know...but it is like that.
Many instrumental songs sound awesome , but i'm guessing you have to really know how to make it sound awesome without one of the most used instrument = vocals!
Because when making music i want to make something special and awesome...something different...with adding some special stuff...something unique...but i can't!!!
Because i have these limits that i can't cross or i'm not sure where or how to cross them...
It's really hard to explain because it's complicated.
It's something like this : if i want to make trip hop or any other type of music style.
Every genre has it's own specific stuff...that it has and without that stuff it's something else.
So the process begins...i am making trip hop...but when adding some of my own stuff...something unique...
The music begins to blur

And this is not just about trip hop , this was just an example.
It happens to everything!
I start adding a lot of stuff and in the end it's not like trip hop , it's more like some electronica or something like that.
I have this problem of over-doing stuff...but this was turned-on only for good reasons to be more professional and look where it's gotten me now?
I can't handle the process...
Maybe i don't have much of experience!
I will really appreciate some help




