the last time your grlfriend left you....

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the last time your grlfriend left you....

Post by deckme(N)tal » Wed Sep 27, 2006 2:23 pm

what you did right after the event?

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Post by Meef Chaloin » Wed Sep 27, 2006 2:28 pm

cried
got drunk and stoned
cried some more

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Post by deckme(N)tal » Wed Sep 27, 2006 2:30 pm

cried
and after 10 days realized that she really left me for someone else and cried some more too..
happened 1 month ago...now i only listen to sad music.. :lol:
anyway i have got my social life back..

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Post by methyl » Wed Sep 27, 2006 2:35 pm

Cried.

After that i dedicated my teenage years to ableton live.

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Post by elemental » Wed Sep 27, 2006 2:50 pm

Cried

Then thought "Cool I got all the time to make tunes now!"

Went and made some very dark music.
Locked myself away.

Looked at some porn.
Got sad for a while.

That was almost 5 months ago.
Still getting on my feet really. (We were together 4 years)
But things are moving...
Think you only really get over the last till once you meet the next.

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Post by minimal » Wed Sep 27, 2006 2:58 pm

cried
did cocaine
2 weeks apathy
woke up
ditched cocaine (once for all, can't even go near it anymore now, phew)
took my energy back
made music
changed city

that was 1.5 years ago.
since then no more "I love you for the rest of my life" relationships = pretty much one night stands = more time/energy for music

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I was pretty rattled

Post by rasputin » Wed Sep 27, 2006 3:01 pm

It was quite a soap opera, looking at it from several years remove.
She was my heart's desire, and we went through 10 years of other relationships before she became available. Then I swooped in like a hawk (or possibly vulture) and married her.
I had a couple at that time who were close friends. When they first met her, the husband became infatuated with her and patiently waited. He was a very excellent and successful new age composer, and was the guy who showed me how I could make music using computers and sound modules. I got so obsessed with this my marriage started to suffer. Then HE swooped in, left his girlfriend, and got my wife. She divorced me, and married him.
And so that brings my story up to 1995. As far as I know they are still married, and most of his records are still in print and apparently selling well.


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Post by deckme(N)tal » Wed Sep 27, 2006 3:04 pm

no.....being cheated for a new age composer...now that's BAD :cry:

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Post by Machinate » Wed Sep 27, 2006 3:07 pm

Went out and got a much much much better one.
Been with her for nigh on 10 years (november) and two kids.

Gotta love breakups :)
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Post by Tarekith » Wed Sep 27, 2006 3:14 pm

Went for a long run, realized things happen in life for a reason and promptly forgot about her. Threw myself even more into music, and that led me to meeting my wife :)
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Post by djadonis206 » Wed Sep 27, 2006 3:19 pm

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Re: I was pretty rattled

Post by Sales Dude McBoob » Wed Sep 27, 2006 3:32 pm

rasputin wrote:It was quite a soap opera, looking at it from several years remove.
She was my heart's desire, and we went through 10 years of other relationships before she became available. Then I swooped in like a hawk (or possibly vulture) and married her.
I had a couple at that time who were close friends. When they first met her, the husband became infatuated with her and patiently waited. He was a very excellent and successful new age composer, and was the guy who showed me how I could make music using computers and sound modules. I got so obsessed with this my marriage started to suffer. Then HE swooped in, left his girlfriend, and got my wife. She divorced me, and married him.
And so that brings my story up to 1995. As far as I know they are still married, and most of his records are still in print and apparently selling well.


r.
I feel for you, ras. That's terrible.

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Post by djshiva » Wed Sep 27, 2006 3:32 pm

since it happened for me VERY recently, i am still crying, drinking a little bit more than i should, trying to make tunes but everything just comes out all wrong.

i don't like cheaters. :(

happened a month ago and then this week i find out that she is moving 2.5 hours away to live with the girl she cheated on me with. :cry:

well, at least ableton is getting more of a workout than usual.
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Post by minimal » Wed Sep 27, 2006 3:37 pm

djshiva wrote:since it happened for me VERY recently, i am still crying, drinking a little bit more than i should, trying to make tunes but everything just comes out all wrong.

i don't like cheaters. :(

happened a month ago and then this week i find out that she is moving 2.5 hours away to live with the girl she cheated on me with. :cry:

well, at least ableton is getting more of a workout than usual.
take your time and your tunes will be groovier than before

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Post by forge » Wed Sep 27, 2006 3:38 pm

Meef Chaloin wrote: got drunk and stoned
and have done ever since,

regardless of what's happened in the mean time

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