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How about, why did your wife get pissed at you?

v0ins315 wrote:How about, why did your wife get pissed at you?

First off, she sees me spending time on the computer (or reading, or sleeping, or using the bathroom) when I could be spending it doing things she wants me to do (like the dishes, or the laundry, or helping the kids clean their rooms, which I do, but not enough for her liking).

There is underlying, inexhaustible annoyance at all times about this, and she has infinite capacity to store and recall things that I do that she regards as transgressions to ensure a steady supply of annoyance.

Honestly, some of these things I do which I may agree are wrongs (like when I say I'll do something but I blow it off) but others which are so not.

So, I am always at some level of "defcon", just usually not this heightened. For this particular action, her justification is that "I have some property of hers that I have not returned".

I have no clue what it is. I asked her to let me know what it was, so that I might return it, she replied "I asked you for it five months ago" which she may or may not have actually done, but she knows that I wouldn't remember anyway because it is really just not that important, she is just *making* it that way.

So it's like that.

mikemc wrote:

v0ins315 wrote:How about, why did your wife get pissed at you?

First off, she sees me spending time on the computer (or reading, or sleeping, or using the bathroom) when I could be spending it doing things she wants me to do (like the dishes, or the laundry, or helping the kids clean their rooms, which I do, but not enough for her liking).

There is underlying, inexhaustible annoyance at all times about this, and she has infinite capacity to store and recall things that I do that she regards as transgressions to ensure a steady supply of annoyance.

Honestly, some of these things I do which I may agree are wrongs (like when I say I'll do something but I blow it off) but others which are so not.

So, I am always at some level of "defcon", just usually not this heightened. For this particular action, her justification is that "I have some property of hers that I have not returned".

I have no clue what it is. I asked her to let me know what it was, so that I might return it, she replied "I asked you for it five months ago" which she may or may not have actually done, but she knows that I wouldn't remember anyway because it is really just not that important, she is just *making* it that way.
So it's like that.

Remind me never to get married. I end up walking away from relationships where the woman starts in with imaginary transgressions, and hammers at me for being absent minded about things I don't care about etc. At some point it's best to seek counseling, I'm pretty sure an internet forum that's 99% wagging dicks isn't the best choice for that? dunno? We will tell you to dump her ass pretty much every time. Seriously I wouldn't put up with that, sounds like my last serious girlfriend, who was basically a total bitch.

I think you may have some communication issues to work out.

Nothing but slack jawed faggots as far as the eye can see....



Shameful. Are any of you actually MEN?

LoopStationZebra wrote:Nothing but slack jawed faggots as far as the eye can see....



Shameful. Are any of you actually MEN?

This

mikemc wrote:

v0ins315 wrote:How about, why did your wife get pissed at you?

First off, she sees me spending time on the computer (or reading, or sleeping, or using the bathroom) when I could be spending it doing things she wants me to do (like the dishes, or the laundry, or helping the kids clean their rooms, which I do, but not enough for her liking).

There is underlying, inexhaustible annoyance at all times about this, and she has infinite capacity to store and recall things that I do that she regards as transgressions to ensure a steady supply of annoyance.

Honestly, some of these things I do which I may agree are wrongs (like when I say I'll do something but I blow it off) but others which are so not.

So, I am always at some level of "defcon", just usually not this heightened. For this particular action, her justification is that "I have some property of hers that I have not returned".

I have no clue what it is. I asked her to let me know what it was, so that I might return it, she replied "I asked you for it five months ago" which she may or may not have actually done, but she knows that I wouldn't remember anyway because it is really just not that important, she is just *making* it that way.

So it's like that.

Wow, that's some serious passive aggressive shit and really I don't see any way of that kind of thing just magically disappearing and a return to marital bliss, even with some effort on your part short of performance perfection on each line item of her grievance report.

This makes me sad.

But kudos to you because usually being a in relationship like that would have forced most guys to sell off all their music gear a long time ago.

beats me wrote: But kudos to you because usually being a in relationship like that would have forced most guys to sell off all their music gear a long time ago.

Well, thanks. Although, you see, *not* selling it off, other than music making it being therapeutic and creative, is what makes me feel like... well, like this guy:


even when I'm doing the dishes

[edit] and,

Machinesworking wrote:At some point it's best to seek counseling, I'm pretty sure an internet forum that's 99% wagging dicks isn't the best choice for that? dunno?

Of COURSE it isn't. Hence the title of the thread

mikemc wrote:

v0ins315 wrote:How about, why did your wife get pissed at you?

First off, she sees me spending time on the computer (or reading, or sleeping, or using the bathroom) when I could be spending it doing things she wants me to do (like the dishes, or the laundry, or helping the kids clean their rooms, which I do, but not enough for her liking).

There is underlying, inexhaustible annoyance at all times about this, and she has infinite capacity to store and recall things that I do that she regards as transgressions to ensure a steady supply of annoyance.

Honestly, some of these things I do which I may agree are wrongs (like when I say I'll do something but I blow it off) but others which are so not.

So, I am always at some level of "defcon", just usually not this heightened. For this particular action, her justification is that "I have some property of hers that I have not returned".

I have no clue what it is. I asked her to let me know what it was, so that I might return it, she replied "I asked you for it five months ago" which she may or may not have actually done, but she knows that I wouldn't remember anyway because it is really just not that important, she is just *making* it that way.

So it's like that.

Ouch. Well, you def. need to talk to her about it. If she feels the only way to get a point across, is to physically take something of value from you, then you need to compromise, comply, or fasten your seatbelt. Ignorance is a downward spiral.

I've got your solution right here...

nebulae wrote:I've got your solution right here...

this.

seriously, all the world's (and most of the intergalactical) problems are solved with a massive dildo.

mikemc wrote:For this particular action, her justification is that "I have some property of hers that I have not returned". I have no clue what it is.

Oh that's easy. It's your balls.

stringtapper wrote:

mikemc wrote:For this particular action, her justification is that "I have some property of hers that I have not returned". I have no clue what it is.

Oh that's easy. It's your balls.

Says the happily married castrated suburbanite.

nebulae wrote:

stringtapper wrote:

mikemc wrote:For this particular action, her justification is that "I have some property of hers that I have not returned". I have no clue what it is.

Oh that's easy. It's your balls.

Says the happily married castrated suburbanite.