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Johnisfaster wrote:yeah..... is it bad of me to dream about my girl dumping me just so I could sit around making music and being drunk all day?

In your under wear farting and picking your nose

no, it's a perfectly normal day dream most men have

even wrote:

noisetonepause wrote:I'm 21

you really are 21...

not that i'm old and wise and shit, i'm only 24, myself, but back in the day, lol, when i was 21, i, too wouldn't have traded anything for that being in love natural high. but then again, i would get complaints from her about not spending enough time with her, or that my music was more important than her. fuckin hell...

i've been single for almost 3 years now, (single as without a stable grilfriend, cus i'm not lacking sex) and in all fairness, i do miss that comfortable feeling of having someone and knowing things are settled, but music is THE MOST IMPORTANT thing in my life.

Yeah man, I loved my bird more than anything, we were engaged, but we just grew apart. Ultimately, for me, music is where I'm at, and although she understood that, you can't change what destiny brings. I could be living my dream in the next few years rather than sitting back in a rocking chair tellin my grandchildren of how I COULD have done this or that. At the end of the day, you gotta live your life, regardless. Birds come and go, but you only live once. You gotta follow your dreams otherwise you'll always regret it...

stealth1 wrote:Birds come and go

my grandfather, which is probably the most intelligent man i know, tho almost uneducated (didn't even do highschool) said to me once when i was a kid:

'sonny, you must never ever run after a girl or a tram, cus there's always another one due to come your way'

even wrote:

stealth1 wrote:Birds come and go

my grandfather, which is probably the most intelligent man i know, tho almost uneducated (didn't even do highschool) said to me once when i was a kid:

'sonny, you must never ever run after a girl or a tram, cus there's always another one due to come your way'

Wise words from a wise man for sure

My dad doesn't really understand my beats, but the way he puts it is mint:

Music is music so long as it means something to someone.

stealth1 wrote:Music is music so long as it means something to someone.

keeeeeeen 'eeeeeeeeeeel. i wish my father said that about my music. he calls it something that can be translated as "headbanging" but it's actually more derogative. he's a cunt, what does he know?!

Its all good my friend. Just keep pluggin away, he'll see its worth someday man.

peace bro

even wrote:'sonny, you must never ever run after a girl or a tram, cus there's always another one due to come your way'

I disagree. You need to run, fight, and jump through flaming hoops for it to be really worth it.

If your girl can't accept that you have to make music as well as be with her, then she's not right for. You obviously might have to, you know, communicate with her to see eye to eye on this, just like you need to accept that she has needs.

As for a need to have casual sex and 'have fun', all I can say is that I've never actually had a need for that, particularly the casual sex part. And hell, I have as much of a drinking problem as everyone else around here does, but unlike most of them I'm not particularly proud of it. That's a different discussion.

martin808 wrote:I had the biggest mental block i've ever had for the last 6 months. I thought my tune making days were over until i split with my girl about 3 weeks ago. all of a sudden all these melodies and quality beats are coming out.. I made 3 completely new tracks in the space of 1 weekend last week.

I can't say i don't miss her though. I'd eat my own shite to get her back. I was with her for near 4 years and it's eating away at my soul that's she's not here.

good to get some tunes done though.

ah dude, sorry to hear that; breakups are always quite the rollercoaster...
especially when the abundance of oxytocin kicks in on the sundaymornings.. blehgh!
but really good to hear you are banging out tunes again; haven't heard anything in a while from you...
bring those melancholic tracks on!

haha. yeah. i'll put them up soon.

Yeah... I have a master plan to get rid of my chick right now. I'm just going to borrow my friends van and load up all my gear and bounce. I have allready saved up enough $ to just rent and furnish a place for the next 12 months, and do nothing but make tunes and some part time school at the art institute.... where there is NOTHING but hot girls to bring home... god there are so many girls fucking dope ass chicks that I have had to say no to due to trying to be a good guy for my girl, but I'm starting to feel like I can't be tied down right now... plust I just got a crotch rocket and she's already bitching about that too. I'm going to miss her, but not as much as I am going to love making tunes, having promiscuous sex flings with random hot girls and turning myself into a red smear on the highway. Life is just waiting for me, and I don't think I'm going to let it wait any longer. Especially after having my best friend and brother die this year- you never know when those hands are going to come down from the sky and toss your ass into hell to burn. I'm on a fuckin' bender!

Fucking a new girl each night is what you call 'life'?

noisetonepause wrote:Fucking a new girl each night is what you call 'life'?

Well, it's one hell of a fine aspect of it.

And hey- not everybody is in love like you.

All I do is fight with my girl, she sits around the house all day depressed on all sorts of meds and shit. I've lived in the city my whole life, and since I moved to the burbs with this chick, I haven't been seeing any of my friends, all I do is look at this computer screen bored to death. I'm losing inspiration to make tunes... I def don't call that life. So on the flipside, yeah- fucking a new girl each night compared to this crock of shit is definetely life!

noisetonepause wrote:Fucking a new girl each night is what you call 'life'?

no this is what i call bliss. or heaven, if you will

That's assuming they're all hot

Don't have odors and aren't psycho bitches from hell

1 on every 3 girls is psycho

You've heard the saying before

Someone somewhere is tired of her shit <---------