eturnol wrote:massive head spin got everything right
i feel like its not hard at all to compromise with my fiancee and spend less time making music. in fact, i WANT to do exactly that. its fun going out to eat and walking in the park with her. we're happy and i have no problems at all with our relationship or making music.
she does have her own hobbies, so i think i am lucky in that. we just do our own thing in the same room and its totally chill.
i don't know why this is such a big deal. once you find the right person all those types of games just go away.
but relationships (even perfect ones) don't just happen the way they should. but I agree I'm not into games at all.
the problem I have sometimes is that she has very few hobbies and basically lives here and she deals with chronic pain which basically means shes at home most the time. so it's tuff ya know? personally, I like to make music while I'm the only person at home so I can really dig into some annoying shit before I find the sounds that stick. when someone is in the house (or worse in the room) I can't get into being so adventurous cause I feel like they are watching or listening.
music is only fun for me when I'm digging deep into sounds, and I have a hard time digging into sounds when someone is around.
though AS AN UPDATE TO MY THREAD::::
things have been going pretty good. we talked (talking? thats a crazy idea it'll never work!) and she tends to give me more space when I want to make music. although I've been working 7 days a week lately I'm getting some progress done. today I actually finished the skeleton of one of my best tracks. so I'm pretty happy.
maybe talking is the way to go eh? who'd have thought.....
It was as if someone shook up a 6 foot can of blood soda and suddenly popped the top.
