a couple of points here:djadonis206 wrote:I believe in Humans rights, easyforge wrote:
Why stop at Berkely? There are plenty of gay that are perseceuted, women that are victimized, and thinly vieled racsim to this day throughout the country.
however when it comes to the quest for equality I don't like to be lumped in with gays and women, being a black person.
It's far to easy for a gay person to pass for straight or a woman to show a little tit and ass to get her way
Blacks and Mexicans can't change the color of their skin no matter how much ass and titty they show
I do believe two married gay people should have the same rights as straight people - if your partner is in the hospital you have every right to know what's going on, you are family - that is your family
I believe in that stuff, for real - I just don't want to be lumped into the whole "I'm different I need special treatment" group
in America
i agree with you on one point, and that is that you cannot change your skin color. however, i have to ask you this:
if someone asked you to cover your skin color in order to get a gig, would you do it? how would you feel? would you do it and feel guilty later? would you turn it down?
now take that and apply it to being gay or female.
should i "act straight" in order to get a gig? should i blink my lashes and shove my tits out to get a gig? what if doing those two things go against everything that i am? what if doing these two things makes me sick to the core, and keep me subjected to the dominant culture's ideas of who i am?
basically adonis, what i am doing is using a very simple analogy to ask you if you think assimilation into the dominant culture has ever been easy for, healthy for, or done anything positive for anyone on the outside margins of that culture? and while you are correct that you cannot change your skin color, you are mistaken in thinking that "acting straight" or "showing my tits" is asking anything less unnatural of me.
i could go on for hours about how i think your own sexism affects your view of women and gays, but instead i will just say that i think it does. this is not to make a nasty comment toward you, but to say what i think are the origins of this offkilter viewpoint.