Wow, Karachi culture has come a long way
First, desi women are all fucking crazy. You know it. I know it. Let's not argue about it.
Second, this is a no-win scenario. If you were friends with a desi girl, she was planning the wedding. I have plenty of friends who are straight and female. I'm cool with it. They are cool with it. Mrs. Neb is totally cool with it. NONE OF THEM ARE DESIs. Mainly because desi women don't know how to be friends with guys who aren't already married or gay.
Now that we have that out of the way, let's discuss options:
You are an asshole because you didn't see things her way. You have no argument against that at all. You're fucked. You can either avoid her until she gets over it, but she will make your life hell along the way. Eventually she will latch onto someone else, and then she'll stop being cruel to you. But you'll never ever be out of the doghouse. Desi girls hold grudges forever.
Your only way out of this is to grovel, a lot. You must tell her that you only considered her always as a friend and you don't want to lose that. Anticipate plenty of drama during this groveling period, and expect it to last 6 months to a year. Also, whomever you date next will likely face some form of vendetta or sabotage from purple-shirt.
Or you can disregard the above and tell her you prefer dolphins:
http://www.muchosucko.com/show/43638
either way, you're fucked.
(Great music, BTW)
. DO IT!! you always regret the things you dont do
Good stuff. Gives you more energy to focus on important things like making good music and establishing career goals.....