Ableton Forum

djgroovy wrote:The whole dating thing is pretty weird to me.
Isn't that just in America?
Here, we don't have that, people go out, alone or in groups, hang out, get atracted to someone, make your moves, stuff happens or doesn't happen. None of that "will you go out with me stuff". You're making it hard for yourselves, imho.

"Dating" is just one of the many nonsensical terms and conditions women require to feel less guilty about giving you access to their vagina.

beats me wrote:
"Dating" is just one of the many nonsensical terms and conditions women require to feel less guilty about giving you access to their vagina.

I love this guy!

GrooveNinja wrote:

beats me wrote:
"Dating" is just one of the many nonsensical terms and conditions women require to feel less guilty about giving you access to their vagina.

I love this guy!

yeah, well, I've dated him, and he's all "show me the money" before he "shows you the couchie" - just fair warning...

bosonHavoc wrote:

doc holiday wrote:

beats me wrote:I think most women see music as a cute little hobby that takes attention away from them. So you need to determine how much truth and importantance is in that statement for both of you.

"I fully support your music...after you do all this house and yard work"

lol my girl was getting on me for us to finish writing and me to finish mixing 6 tracks in a week
i told her thats freaking nuts... then i talked her down to three.

well i'm finishing up one in a week lol she has to do back up vox then i have to mix.

blessing and a curse
but she never tells me not to work on music..
and we skip going out and spending money so we can rock out

i get bitched at for not spending enough time in the studio

then i get bitched at for not getting shit done

then i get bitched at again for not getting shit done..

and again


then i get the "you told me you would fix that" and don't get none till i do it..

viscous circle..



oh yeah.. we married now.. changes things..

love her to death, but she expects to much house work.

she'll have her masters in november.. then i'll be able to tell her to bugger off and clean it herself

one of the best things about being married is the amount of lustful energy for every woman but my wife.....
When I was single, it was never that intense.....
Makes me feel like I am 15 again.

debu wrote:

Machinesworking wrote:Hanging with single straight girls as a single straight guy, looks healthy and "mature" on paper but IRL it's always messy at some point.

Not if you set boundaries after you know there is no attraction. Having platonic lady friends is actually the easiest way to meet more women. Social proof is powerful

this is the only decent advice in this sausagefest of a thread. you don't even need to set boundaries, just (omfg) treat women like people.

they know you stare at their tits, they don't always care, but they know, they're just wondering if you're an asshole and can talk to them like humans.

I *heart* tits.

awesome, we hit a 100 posts in this thread!
Good time to end it now.
THANK YOU SO MUCH for all the support throughout the day!!

I think she has calmed down a bit as a friend told me and says there is no need for weirdness , play cool and calm and prove the friendship is intact.

EASIER SAID THAN DONE!!!!!! But i'll try.

NEB : Ever since i spent years in Boston, i hate desi girls!! I just don't find them attractive, i miss my blonde 19yr old gf's!

Thanks for the encouragement on the music, this country is on the brink of self destruction, but a small group of people try to keep the scene going.

Best to all of you.
It has been awesome hearing ur views and learning how most on these boards think anal sex is the answer to most of life's issues!! LOL

love from Pakistan!!
Faisal

navitus wrote: Best to all of you.
It has been awesome hearing ur views and learning how most on these boards think anal sex is the answer to most of life's issues!! LOL

love from Pakistan!!
Faisal

And with that, I say to my fellow formites "Job well done!"

navitus wrote: NEB : Ever since i spent years in Boston, i hate desi girls!! I just don't find them attractive, i miss my blonde 19yr old gf's!

Wow. I hope you meant that differently and is just came out weird.

^ I'm sure something in there was lost in translation, but the meaning is pretty clear and it's something that I completely understand. Don't take it as a racist statement, more as a preference.

just preference guys.....just preference. After all the loving women in my family r desi!

nebulae wrote:

GrooveNinja wrote:

beats me wrote:
"Dating" is just one of the many nonsensical terms and conditions women require to feel less guilty about giving you access to their vagina.

I love this guy!

yeah, well, I've dated him, and he's all "show me the money" before he "shows you the couchie" - just fair warning...

I meant it in a Platonic sense. Besides, I'm obsessed with the big booty and tiny little middle, and he doesn't qualify on either count.

mikemc wrote: "I'd love to. Uhm, not to be presumptious, but we've known each other for a while: if the evening were to turn intimate, would you mind wearing a furry mask?"

OMFG!!!
Can i private message you about this, and maybe arrange a meeting, you know, some where discrete?

My honest advice?

I only read the first page, but it seems like everything that needed to be said has already been said. She asked you out, you weren't interested. That sends a pretty strong message anyway. You might want to get some space, and not hang out outside of work. Just be friendly, but not flirty.

If it comes down to needing to have a talk about things, just be honest. You don't feel that way about her, and you hope you can keep being friends.

Saying, "I don't want to risk our friendship" might be interpreted as "I love you too, but I'm chicken shit." and you don't want her getting that message.