then don't Dj dude, just enjoy playing an instrument, or composing music with live.I hate making dj sets.
I don't really get the whole stuff of your compact post. Apart from my last advice, the only thing that I could say is that instantly getting a new girlfriend may not be a so good thing. but do what's good for you
but now you got a new car, new job, new girl... you didn't get that much down. Just keep cool, and enjoy
