[email protected] wrote: Even if you think I'm a jerk off wanker at least you know who I am now. I'd rather have you mock me and dislike me than not have you at least wonder what this goofball is up to.
.. I mean, this is not a humble world we live in. You have to take a stand and get something going or there will be less opportunities. ...
Again, I really do apologize for being such an idiot!
points taken.
it's one thing to be talented, and to *recognize* that fact and accept it.
you might even realize that you are more naturally talented than most musicians, or even 99 out of 100 musicians or even more.
there's absolutely nothing wrong with that imo ... contrary to what a lot of people have pounded into thier skulls about being overly humble - or maybe a christian outlook that negates the self and makes people feel guilt for feeling (or knowing) they are gifted in some area beyond the norm.
however it's *totally* different to express that to people outright in any way that appears arrogant. because people instinctively flinch at it ...
... it backfires on you, and no matter how talented you are or what you have to offer they will reject you because either they see that it's in really bad taste, and / or thier own egos are threatened so they will try and cut you down.
this especially applies to musicians, who tend to be an egotistical and / or insecure lot. the history of groups and bands that split up because someone in the group "knew" they were a creative visionary and acted like it or ran off at the mouth about it too often are countless.
one of the best tips for any musician - socially, carreer wise, politically - is to let your best work speak for itself. promote yourself matter of factly
also, recognize that you are not the alpha/omega of the music world, and that everyone you come into contact with has something to add. there are things you can learn from them, and in some areas they are more experienced and talented than you are, even the kid you are teaching
always be on guard against your ego ... it can raise its ugly head at any time and in any situation and screw you over.
anyway thats my take on it
now excuse me while i attend to my adoring fans
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