Your getting alittle mad...The help you want is right here.. Are you ready Ladies and Gentlemen.......
1. Look up the software: Harmony Navigator..study this ,play with this software.. and be where you want to be..really.. This is what you want.
A little theory wont hurt to help you understand what your trying to go for in chord voicings..ect.....
http://www.cognitone.com/products/nav/intro/page.stml