The Vengeance Essential Club Sounds CDs have good kicks. Get them from Mutekki Media. As opposed to most other CDs I've encountered, they actually sound like club kicks out-of-the-box.
They have the bottom end you require, but some may need a little top-end tweaking. Kicks in dance music are getting harder-sounding over time... It's a natural consequence of competing producers.
Perhaps counter-intuitively, the hardness is mostly in the top end.
Take a more 'punchy' sounding kick and layer it with your main kick. I use an instrument rack for this, inside a drum rack, these days. I love racks!
Use an hp filter (preferably on your sampler) to remove the new kick's bottom end. Play with the volume, cut-off and resonance until you match the feel of your reference track. (You are using a reference track, right?)
If you have CPU to burn, add a touch of short, tight reverb to help blend in the new kick top and give it presence.
If you like, play with distortion (before the reverb. Hell, after the reverb if it sounds nice.)
If you can't get the sample CDs in question (they're not cheap, but they're less than a Waves plug-in) you can construct kicks from ripped vinyl or dance downloads.
Find some tracks with relatively clean-sounding kicks. Preferably just kicks by themselves, or kicks with only high-end sounds playig. Sample (or cut out) a few.
Put three samplers in a rack. Set one to lp, one to bp and one to hp filters. Set a long release time and high sustain for the lp layer, a medium decay and no release or sustain for the bp layer and a really short decay and no sustain or release for the top layer.
Put a bassy kick in the lp layer. Put a thumpy (mid-rangey) kick in the bp layer and put a toppy kick in the hp layer.
Now go play. You should be able to remove most of any high-hat artifacts from the kicks with the short decay times of the upper layers. You can also use the short decays to shape the top-end of the kick.
Add a short, tight reverb to the top layer if you like.
You can have fun here - you can add stereo modulation effects to the top two layers without fear of losing the integrity of the bass layer. If that floats your boat.
Have some reference material to hand. Keep referring back to it, so you don't go super-bassy, middy and congested or super-hard by accident.
You won't duplicate an existing kick exactly, so don't try. You can waste days.
Good engineering fun.
