OT Are all women mad?

koneko · Post by **koneko** » Wed Sep 24, 2008 7:08 am

this thread feels like being locked in a men jail. you know what happens there after a while without women around . .. "i hate women but still fuck them" my god.... how pathetic

Emissary · Post by **Emissary** » Wed Sep 24, 2008 7:16 am

i think the majority of women are fucktards, just like the majority of men are fucktards. women are just fucktardy in a different way. sometimes you find a girl who isnt a fucktard, but its rare.

Tohtruck · Post by **Tohtruck** » Wed Sep 24, 2008 7:33 am

Wow it's like everyone here is reading my mind or something!

Nathann, yer mad on point right now dude! I think I've just about agreed with everything you've said so far.

Women are fukin confusing and I just don't understand them. But I think you are right in saying that us guys are partly responsible. Too many of us act like any given hot girl could do no wrong or put them on an imaginary pedestal.

But just as many women are just as shallow are us guys are. Although with women I think its less so about looks and more about things like money, flash, talent etc. Although looks are also a factor. I think they basically want a guy to show off to their friends. Basically they want a nice accessory. We're like handbags. And I also think with some (maybe not all) women its about showing and proving their superiority to their friends.

Also as much as I love my sister as well; I also think she is a selfish mental bitch. Definitely much less so than other girls I know tho.

But my mom so far is one of the very few exceptions to this rule. In no way is she or has she ever shown herself to be selfish, mental, or bitchy.

There's a theory that all men are secretly looking for their mom when searching for a mate.

I'm definitely looking for a girl who exhibits similar qualities and values. Even tho she annoys the shit outta me.

Baron von Case said:
PS - Good luck, though. I went years without any relationship or sex, wanting to die constantly, but I can now say it's all been worth it. You've heard it a million times, but really does find you eventually. Hang in there.

I'm currently in the middle of a period like that. I haven't even seen any potential prospects anywhere for a while now. So its constantly really depressing and frustrating. I'm hangin' in there and have been for a while now.

Its funny, I live in NYC which is one of the most densely populated cities and yet its also one of the loneliest. If anything, it's uncommon that a day goes by where I don't want to die. Goodlord maybe I just need mental help or pillz. But thanks for saying that man, I needed to hear that.

koneko · Post by **koneko** » Wed Sep 24, 2008 7:36 am

forge · Post by **forge** » Wed Sep 24, 2008 7:43 am

no - some people are shallow, some are not, some are chilled, others are not, some people are kind, some are not etc etc etc

but all women are mad in some way - at least that has been my experience

of course this depends on your definition of mad, but for me it means temporarily putting all rationality and sanity on hold for at least one week of every month

snakedogman · Post by **snakedogman** » Wed Sep 24, 2008 8:11 am

I don't think they're mad per se, but they do seem to communicate in a completely different language than man even though on the surface it may sound the same

Especially when the topic is relationships, it's hard not to get completely confused by the constant (apparent) contradictions between what they might say to you and what they actually do (or don't).

And to the guys going trough a lonely stretch right now: yeah I'm there as well and have been for a while now, so you're not alone. Try to stay positive eh?

freshdrumma · Post by **freshdrumma** » Wed Sep 24, 2008 9:06 am

don't need to read nothing than the title!

YES!!!!!!!!

heavensdaw · Post by **heavensdaw** » Wed Sep 24, 2008 9:19 am

Yes and No
Just like men.

Women are DIFFERENT to men. They have their 'place' in life as do men.

It's this 'place' that needs understanding. By both women AND men.

When we don't respect, understand and accept ourselves, how can we expect to do the same for others?

What gives?

I personally think one the main problems for both men and women is the 'guidelines' of behavior given to us.... Ie .. Monogamy. that is one great social stigma, that so often lays at the very bottom of peoples relationship problems.. We all live too far apart... we have become animals living in a self created prison....

We're all fucking crazy... But hey, you gotta be slightly dead not to be..

Human beings (ha.. there's a joke!!) have created a world with very little tolerance.

Hd

Sorry for the rant...

Baron von Case · Post by **Baron von Case** » Wed Sep 24, 2008 9:23 am

Tohtruck wrote: Baron von Case said:
PS - Good luck, though. I went years without any relationship or sex, wanting to die constantly, but I can now say it's all been worth it. You've heard it a million times, but really does find you eventually. Hang in there.

I'm currently in the middle of a period like that. I haven't even seen any potential prospects anywhere for a while now. So its constantly really depressing and frustrating. I'm hangin' in there and have been for a while now.

Its funny, I live in NYC which is one of the most densely populated cities and yet its also one of the loneliest. If anything, it's uncommon that a day goes by where I don't want to die. Goodlord maybe I just need mental help or pillz. But thanks for saying that man, I needed to hear that.

Pills won't do anything except make you totally oblivious to your problems, and as soon as you get off them, you'll realize your life sucks 50 times worse than it did before you were on them. Trust me, I've been on every anti-depressant there is. If you're not going out that day to buy a gun and kill yourself or someone else, do not medicate yourself. That's my view anyway. Take it or leave it.

I live in Cleveland- right in the middle of the busiest area- and I can't stand it here for very long. And it's nothing at all compared to NYC. I suggest, if a permanent relocation isn't possible, to take a bus (or preferably drive) as far from the city as possible once every two weeks or so. The city has its perks, but it drains you. Go collect yourself. You'd be amazed what a change of scenery can do.

Life is just a series of personal eras. Some eras are obviously better than others, but there is always an upside. While you're single, take advantage of your freedom. To most people that means fuck around a lot, but there's so much more to it. Take time to really cement your music. Someday you'll meet someone who you'll fall head over heels for, but that person will take ALL your time. I couldn't be happier with where I am relationship-wise, but being a natural loner, I still long for the days when I could sit alone and think and read and write and do music whenever I wanted, etc.

Nothing's ever perfect. It's just a game of working on what you can when you can.

And never forget the immortal words of Monty Python: "Always look on the bright side of life."

There is always a bright side.

4.33 · Post by **4.33** » Wed Sep 24, 2008 9:39 am

take it easy, you can't tie somebody to you for the rest of yer life. and if you can it'll suck eventually.

Baron von Case · Post by **Baron von Case** » Wed Sep 24, 2008 9:41 am

4.33 wrote:take it easy, you can't tie somebody to you for the rest of yer life. and if you can it'll suck eventually.

I disagree completely, but I totally respect that view. If that makes sense.

tw1nstates · Post by **tw1nstates** » Wed Sep 24, 2008 10:50 am

WHAT???

They are amazing. Sexy, kind, generous, fun, woud do anything for you if you treat em right.

You guys are just looking in the wrong places. . .

And there are very hot ones who are cool, funny great to hang out with.

you just dont meet many of em in clubs or bars. .. but they are out there, don't be so despondant. . .

NorthernMonkey · Post by **NorthernMonkey** » Wed Sep 24, 2008 10:54 am

I've said it before and I'll say it again - Snakes with tits.

markaugust · Post by **markaugust** » Wed Sep 24, 2008 3:29 pm

forge wrote:
of course this depends on your definition of mad, but for me it means temporarily putting all rationality and sanity on hold for at least one week of every month

hell yeah!
i've got two different girlfriends for the price of one
the one I experience the week prior to stated above I would love to be without tho,
she's a insecure good moodsucking piece of work
the other 3 weeks she's the one I fell in love with

weeddigger · Post by **weeddigger** » Wed Sep 24, 2008 4:05 pm

Homebelly wrote: Did this happen around 19th street between 2nd and 4th Ave Brooklyn New York?
I think i might have dated her for a while back in the late 90's...

Nah man, this was in Miami, Fl.

Was your girl Puerto Rican?