HELP!! My best friend just asked me out!!

bosonHavoc · Post by **bosonHavoc** » Fri Feb 20, 2009 2:53 pm

i got one

tell her you suffer from a tragic Bris Milah accident.

jeskola · Post by **jeskola** » Fri Feb 20, 2009 3:02 pm

You should have neither given her a positive or a negative answer - keep her guessing and you have yourself a fuck buddy whenever you click your fingers

knj19 · Post by **knj19** » Fri Feb 20, 2009 3:02 pm

Emissary wrote:PUT A DONK ON HER!!!

solves everything.

agreed, that will sort out the damn flat cock....cant believe we didnt think of that earlier.

navitus · Post by **navitus** » Fri Feb 20, 2009 3:12 pm

I will now come across as the most superficial person in the world. But i just don't find her pretty or attractive and i have NEVER been able to nail any girl whom i wasn't attracted to. I am not opposed to sex at all, far from it, i'm just opposed to screwing this one, as it will inevitably screw everything else in the process!!!

www.myspace.com/faisalbaig

i'll upload a pic now, found one.

navitus · Post by **navitus** » Fri Feb 20, 2009 3:29 pm

ok, in my pic there is a folder called Navitus. The 2 girls sitting in my studio, she is on the left in a purple top.
in the other 2 photos, she is the one with the glasses, i'm the guy on the very top.

I feel bad doing this, so mean. I really care for this person but i dont wanna date her!! Simple. yet not........

While u guys r there, u can check my spinning pics and my track Gnostica aswell (out on Jetlag Digital, available on most stores inc beatport etc.)

Brian W. Green · Post by **Brian W. Green** » Fri Feb 20, 2009 3:31 pm

theres 2 girls in the one pick so i say what ever one is not your best friend you screw her.

beats me · Post by **beats me** » Fri Feb 20, 2009 3:31 pm

Damnit, women have been throwing the "just friends" retort out since Eve ate the apple. Why does it turn into a scandal when a guy does it? Quit over thinking it. You don't see her that way, that's the truth and the end of the debate. There's absolutely no reason to feel guilty or awkward.

If she's cool she'll take it like an adult and the friendship continues. Some of my best friendships with females have had this moment of "should we?", one declines, we laugh it off and life goes on.

Hidden Driveways · Post by **Hidden Driveways** » Fri Feb 20, 2009 3:36 pm

If your company has an HR department, you have a pretty good sexual harassment case against her (she asks you out, you say no, she freaks out - cancels meeting - prompts a co-work to call you about the situation). That kind of behavior is not tolerated at a lot of companies.

The road you're going down with this Myspace thing is brutally mean spirited.

bosonHavoc · Post by **bosonHavoc** » Fri Feb 20, 2009 3:38 pm

beats me wrote:Damnit, women have been throwing the "just friends" retort out since Eve ate the apple. Why does it turn into a scandal when a guy does it? Quit over thinking it. You don't see her that way, that's the truth and the end of the debate. There's absolutely no reason to feel guilty or awkward.

If she's cool she'll take it like an adult and the friendship continues. Some of my best friendships with females have had this moment of "should we?", one declines, we laugh it off and life goes on.

word

navitus · Post by **navitus** » Fri Feb 20, 2009 3:50 pm

haha, the other one is married to my business partner!

mikemc · Post by **mikemc** » Fri Feb 20, 2009 3:52 pm

navitus wrote:ok, in my pic there is a folder called Navitus. The 2 girls sitting in my studio, she is on the left in a purple top.

You have no good excuse unless she is fatter than she looks in the picture.

Hidden Driveways · Post by **Hidden Driveways** » Fri Feb 20, 2009 3:52 pm

Besides, any partner that would give you a hard time about your music isn't worth pursuing. You made the right decision.

jeskola · Post by **jeskola** » Fri Feb 20, 2009 3:53 pm

She's going to see some hidden in meaning in your putting a photo of her on myspace randomly! Cause of course she checks it daily

mikemc · Post by **mikemc** » Fri Feb 20, 2009 4:03 pm

mikemc wrote:
navitus wrote:ok, in my pic there is a folder called Navitus. The 2 girls sitting in my studio, she is on the left in a purple top.
You have no good excuse unless she is fatter than she looks in the picture.

ah, wait a sec, didn't see the part about not supporting your music. I must now provide the love advice in my best faux French broken grammar.

there is no good outcome to this situation. if you date her and end up making the sex, you will have at least had the sex but will eventually have to break up with her because of her being against you doing music. Some might say this would have been the best route, because of the sex making-- but, you say you don't want to make the sex, so no loss for you, and you have had the messy breakup already, which is a loss, but which was inevitable.

So you are done, with the help of the forum you have navigated this rocky emotional strait

Now I think the forum would agree that the solution is to find another, with which to make the sex, quickly. (To be sure, not the sex making quickly, but the finding should be quick, and the onset of sex quick thereafter, but the duration of the making sex not quick).

beats me · Post by **beats me** » Fri Feb 20, 2009 4:35 pm

I think most women see music as a cute little hobby that takes attention away from them. So you need to determine how much truth and importantance is in that statement for both of you.