[OT] Did you ever love ?

Hervé · Post by **Hervé** » Wed Mar 22, 2006 6:28 pm

It might be stupid to ask it here, but, did you eve feel so good with a person that you want to share your life with him/her ? It's like you have to take a new step in your life but you scared to do it... sorry for the stupid post

Moody · Post by **Moody** » Wed Mar 22, 2006 6:34 pm

Yep, and then she broke my heart.

djadonis206 · Post by **djadonis206** » Wed Mar 22, 2006 6:40 pm

To take your pimpin' to a whole new level...break her off something proper put her on the strip and make some money for a nigga'

spiderprod · Post by **spiderprod** » Wed Mar 22, 2006 6:46 pm

i love my kids ......

Nav · Post by **Nav** » Wed Mar 22, 2006 7:04 pm

Totally dude, roll with it!

minimal · Post by **minimal** » Wed Mar 22, 2006 7:13 pm

Moody wrote:Yep, and then she broke my heart.

me too but it was worth it. the time spent together has been beautiful.
if you feel her / him is the one go for it, even if it won't last the whole life then you'll find another one.
better regret something we made that something we didn't!

err_fatale · Post by **err_fatale** » Wed Mar 22, 2006 7:38 pm

yeah then i murdered her and chopped her up into little pieces and put them into jars i keep in my freezer in the basement, so no one else could have her, of course......i take a little out and cook it up with some greens and a little curry paste now and then

LJ Martin · Post by **LJ Martin** » Wed Mar 22, 2006 7:58 pm

nine years, 2 kids and an open relationship... working well here.

Sales Dude McBoob · Post by **Sales Dude McBoob** » Wed Mar 22, 2006 7:59 pm

To take your pimpin' to a whole new level...

Love? Yes. For sure. Have I felt the need to put a ring around her finger?

No.

I'm not interested in things that don't work. It works for some, and more power to 'em, but for me... I'm better off maintaining some of my independence.

DeadlyKungFu · Post by **DeadlyKungFu** » Wed Mar 22, 2006 8:04 pm

I'm loving myself, right... now... wait for it... wait for it... wait for it...

Got married in October after 6.5 years of living together from the getgo. It's nice to have one person in your life with whom you can just let shit go. My family are a bunch of assholes, my wife is a refreshing change, as is her family, I had no idea what a normal family life was.

I'm just glad I have all you guys to make me feel warm and fuzzy <sniff sniff>.

mcconaghy · Post by **mcconaghy** » Wed Mar 22, 2006 8:12 pm

Just celebrated my 6-year anniversary with my wife last week. Best 6 years of my life, mate!

Nav · Post by **Nav** » Wed Mar 22, 2006 9:04 pm

There is a lot of love in the room.

tokyojoe69 · Post by **tokyojoe69** » Wed Mar 22, 2006 9:11 pm

The shit thing is when you're in a relationship and it's good, and even if you try to find fault with it you can't because your partner is totally committed, and yet you struggle to find the motivation to carry on because you can't find the chemistry. And then out of nowhere somebody walks into your life and blows all the preconcieved ideas you ever had right into space and you can sit for hours and be totally absorbed in each other for no particular reason and wonder why there is an electrical tingling feeling when you touch. But you're a decent person with morals, so you don't fuck behind peoples backs, and you don't just suddenly jump ship, and even if the experience does serve a purpose in showing you what happiness can be, it's irrational and impulsive and at a very very wrong time, so you just bite the bullet and walk of into the sunset alone. Shooo!, I feel better now, thanks guys.

arctic ranger · Post by **arctic ranger** » Wed Mar 22, 2006 9:19 pm

a girl is only great if she doesnt mind you spenin time with your lappy and live. my ex had issues with that and thats why shes ex.

LJ Martin · Post by **LJ Martin** » Wed Mar 22, 2006 9:22 pm

arctic ranger wrote:a girl is only great if she doesnt mind you spenin time with your lappy and live. my ex had issues with that and thats why shes ex.

My girl lets me spend time with live/lappy... and other girls... goes both ways tho' she gets to see other boys too.

I couldn't imagine what I would do if I had to go back to the old cycle of jealousy/serial monogamy.