This question is not aimed at anyone here in particular but it is something that needs to be asked. How would you do things differently?
It appears that some of the "soul" of music has vanished when it comes to stage performances. It's apparent that many of us expect more from a "live" performance, particular from acts that embrace technology heavily. Would less technology make an improvement? Is technology being overly relied upon, so much to the point that it has sucked the life of what once was a very stimulating and engrossing experience for the audience?
I agree that the interaction between people is more important than the interaction between man and machine. Unfortunately not every DJ/producer was meant to perform "live". And, not every "living" DJ/performer was ever meant to express themselves to their audience primarily through machines "live". It's a difficult balancing act to encapsulate the "soul" through music and also beam with life while expressing that "soul".
Some acts are in a better position to stay behind the scenes and let the "true" performers take to the stage. Not all of us are capable of doing both as the OP has eluded to.
Which one are you?